Contempt is the Hallmark of Hubris

Contempt is looking at people like they are side dishes we didn’t order. Our current division as Americans is going to undermine not only whomever wins the next election, but probably anyone winning many future elections. Trump just brought to light the depth of the fundamental differences in people. If we don’t find a way to actually communicate sanely across those, we are going to self-destruct as a nation. The basic differences are still the same as in our un-Civil War. I have found that many reasonable, kind, college educated family and friends who voted for Trump simply don’t believe what they hear and read opposing him. Even those that do, still are basically Republican. To me our conflicts are rooted in inborn personality differences. When I really tried to communicate with people I love across our differences, I began to understand why they think the way they do, I don’t necessarily agree, but I understand. Both liberals and conservatives, who don’t accept that we have to compromise to find a way to any shared acceptable vision of justice, are trapped in an illusion that their ideals are obtainable in a democracy of diverse people in close to equal numbers. Trump should be our wake-up call. And more than anything contempt simply shuts people’s minds and blocks any hope for compromise. I think all of us on both sides are filled with the hubris of contempt these days. Our conviction that we know the truth, all the truth, and nothing but the truth is actually claiming to be God. It is sheer hubris. This is an imperfect world with imperfect people, who only by facing that reality can together inch toward creating a better, though still imperfect, world.

About Eileen

Mother of five, grandmother of nine, great-grandmother of five. 1955 -1959 Rice University in Houston, TX. Taught primary grades; Was Associate Post Director of Religious Education at Ft. Campbell, KY; Consultant on the Myers/Briggs Type Indicator, Was married for 60 years to an Architect in Middle Tennessee.

Posted on August 10, 2020, in conflict resolution, fear for the future, hope, One un Civil War Was Enough, Personality Differences, Pre jJudging without Knowledge or Understanding, Spiritual Hubris, the future, uncivil war, Wonderful and Horrible People in Every Type of Group and tagged , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.

  1. Good points Eileen. I find it hard often to understand how people can have a specific view, but we do forget how many of us differ and therefore how hard consensus is.

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  2. I’ve been popping through but the keys on my computer stick so I couldn’t leave comments as I read. I like your posts and your attitude. I agree. We have forgotten how to get along and compromise. To work as a team for the whole of the country, world and planet. Is it even possible to compromise anymore or have we forgotten how? Now that I’m unstuck, I’ll wander further.

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